When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood Testimonials
 

"Susan,

Thank you so much for this book.

Until reading the chapter on "Understanding Men And Sex," I hadn't really factored in how much the physical and emotional differences between us were causing problems.

Now that I have stopped fighting his "guy" tendencies, I have started to appreciate them. He seemed to, almost immediately, recognize my change of attitude and started to display more interest in intimacy.

We still have a way to go, but he actually initiated sex this week!"

~Megan, San Diego, CA


 

"The section on "When he's an emotional mess and you soon will be" was the first section I (had to) read!

That is exactly how I was feeling!

I love my husband, but until now, I was becoming an emotional mess.

Thank you for helping me to feel less like a "freak" for wanting more sex.

And thank you for giving me hope for making our marriage everything I need it to be."

~Kit, Sewickley, PA

 

"Who (or what) are you both bringing to bed" actually made me cry.

I realized that many of MY issues were affecting his sexual desire for me.

Last weekend, we actually talked about our lack of sex - without fighting.

He told me that he hadn't felt comfortable being "honest" with me before. Now he does!

Its a start. And, we have next weekend completely free of kids. I will definitely be trying some of your "sexual environment" ideas.

God bless you and Robert!"

~Janet, Amarillo, TX

 

"Thanks for saving me money on a new diet book!

As I mentioned in my last email, I have gained around 30 lbs in the past year or so. And, I thought that this was the reason that my husband was showing little interest, sexually.

As it turns out, he actually finds my new, more curvy, body very attractive. He actually asked me NOT to lose any weight.

Apparently, his lack of desire was caused by HIS weight gain and his concern that I no longer found him attractive.

Since we had that conversation, we have started showering together again and this has led to lots of fun!"

~Gayle, Oklahoma City, OK

 

"Susan,

I can't believe I thought my biggest problem was a lack of sex.

I did need sex, but until we started to have more regular sex (and he has started being more interested in intimacy overall with me), I didn't realize how many other areas of my life had been negatively affected.

I haven't been remotely interested in visiting those internet sites anymore. I actually found the energy to put in those workout tapes that had been collecting dust. I (think) that I have been far more patient with my step-son lately.

It is like you say, "Sex is only an issue when you aren't getting any."

Thank you, soooo much!"

~Rachel, Marco Island, FL