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Newsletter: February 6th 2007

In this issue of the Christian Marriage
Secrets Newsletter...

- A Note From The Editors, Robert & Susan Irwin
- This Week’s Christian Marriage Quote
- This Week’s Sexual Relationship Tip
- This Week’s Christian Marriage Secrets Article
- This Week’s Recommended Resource
- Who are Robert & Susan Irwin?
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By Relationship Coaches & Christian Authors:

Robert & Susan Irwin

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When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood:
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February 6th, 2007

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This Weeks Christian Marriage Recommended
Resource:

"100 Sex Games For Christian Couples"

Do you want to make this Valentines exciting?

Do you have a plan or are you going to just "wing
it?"

Research has shown that the single best way to
intensify orgasms and the overall lovemaking
experience is having prolonged foreplay. But the
same old foreplay of touching here and there,
kissing and licking this and that does get less
enjoyable (and usually shorter) over time.

"100 Sex Games" will show you exactly how to have
the most amazing and fun foreplay - and as a
result, hot passionate sex like you haven't had
in a long time, or perhaps ever.

In it, you will find 33 of the best sex games and
67 unique variations on those games for couples
to play.

There are many wild, exciting and juicy games but
none of them are: immoral, degrading, perverted
or raunchy...just creative and exciting!

You can download and try "100 Sex Games" here:

http://www.christian-sex.net/games/index.html

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Robert & Susan’s News and Notes:

A Christian marriage forum?

One of the surprises of this "accidental" career
as a "Christian Sex Expert" has been that MUCH of
our time is dedicated to dealing with marriage
issues that have little to do with sex; they are
simply relationship issues.

Currently, I am not aware of any marriage forum
sites dedicated specifically to Christians and I
am considering starting one.

But, before I do, I would love to get your
feedback and gauge your interest level in such a
site.

If you think that you would be interested in a
forum site where you could interact with other
Christian married people, let us know.

Also, if you are interested, let us know exactly
what you would want in such a site.

Robert

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This Week’s Christian Marriage Secrets Quote:

"The bonds of matrimony are like any other bonds
- they mature slowly."

~Peter De Vries

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This Week’s Sexual Relationship Tip:

"Plan your work and work your plan..."

Achieving an exciting and fulfilling sex life is
no different than achieving any other goal in
your life. It takes prioritizing and planning.

"Spontaneity" is overrated! In the "real world,"
if you are not willing to plan and schedule
intimate time...it just won't happen.

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with planning
your intimate time together; in fact, it is very
smart.

Not only does it ensure that you have time
together, it provides that extra "kick" of
anticipation.

I can tell you that the hours before our planned
"intimate time," I am thinking of little else
than being with Sue. And, knowing that we are
going to be together in an intimate way makes the
rest of the day go much easier, no matter what
stressful events are taking place.

Additionally, planning something special or new
for your intimate time provides even more
anticipation.

This weeks recommended resource, "100 Sex Games"

http://www.christian-sex.net/games/index.html

has provided hours of fun for Sue and I and is worth
a try. There are also many other resources
available. The larger chain book stores all have
a "sex and relationship" section that contains
several different books with fun and creative
ideas for planning your intimate time...take
advantage of them!

Robert

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This weeks Christian Marriage Relationship
Article:

"That loving feeling..."

by Jeff Barnet

A loving relationship requires attention and
nurturing to make it last. Couples often don’t
realize how they are hurting their marriage until
significant damage is done. As the Righteous
Brothers sang, "You've lost that lovin'
feeling…Now it's gone...gone...gone."

Here are the most common things that people do to
lose that loving feeling:

1. Attack Each Other: Many people don’t know how
to resolve their differences. They often resort
to character assassination and yelling when they
disagree.

2. Withdraw: On the other hand, some people
withdraw from conflict and quit talking. Then the
ice storm sets in and communication shuts down

3. Fight about money: Couples frequently disagree
about how to spend their money. Many times people
have different interests and priorities. If they
are not able to resolve this, it can become a
source of strife.

4. Have an affair: An affair, whether emotional
or physical, can be one of the most devastating
events for a marriage. Recovering from an affair
is a process that takes a lot of forgiveness,
work, commitment, and time.

5. Quit dating their mate: Early in a
relationship, most couples want to spend every
waking moment together. They make time to romance
each other. The flame burns hot.

However, over time they get caught up with their
careers and children. It becomes easy to forget
about romance and the flame burns out.

6. Anger and Resentment: Have you ever been hurt
by something your spouse said or did? Of course
you have! However, if you don’t forgive your
mate, then the hurt can turn into anger and
resentment. This creates a wall of division.

7. Ignore the relationship: Many relationships
end because couples stop investing themselves in
the relationship. Over time, they stop having
anything in common and drift apart.

8. Start taking each other for granted: People
stop treating each other special and eventually
their marriage loses that special quality.

9. Couples don’t “leave and cleave”: A number of
couples never break the ties to their families.
Therefore, they never learn rely on each other.
This becomes evident during difficult times when
they tend to run back home instead of to their
mate.

10. Manipulation and control: Some people try to
manipulate their partner with ultimatums, guilt,
and tantrums to get their way. This might be
effective short-term, but it erodes the
foundation of the relationship and leads to
resentment.

Don’t let the love slip away

A loving relationship is one of the most precious
gifts in life. These are 10 things that you can
avoid to help protect that bond. “We had a
love…you don’t find every day, so don’t let it
slip away.” (Righteous Brothers)

Visit http://www.BuildingYourDreamMarriage.com

for more tips and tools for building your dream
marriage. You can also visit
http://www.HopeandPeace.com/audio.html to listen
to a free audio by Jeff Barnet, counselor and
relationship coach, on "Building Your Dream
Christian Marriage."

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This Weeks Christian Marriage Recommended
Resource:

"100 Sex Games For Christian Couples"

Do you want to make this Valentines exciting?

Do you have a plan or are you going to just "wing
it?"

Research has shown that the single best way to
intensify orgasms and the overall lovemaking
experience is having prolonged foreplay. But the
same old foreplay of touching here and there,
kissing and licking this and that does get less
enjoyable (and usually shorter) over time.

"100 Sex Games" will show you exactly how to have
the most amazing and fun foreplay - and as a
result, hot passionate sex like you haven't had
in a long time, or perhaps ever.

In it, you will find 33 of the best sex games and
67 unique variations on those games for couples
to play.

There are many wild, exciting and juicy games but
none of them are: immoral, degrading, perverted
or raunchy...just creative and exciting!

You can download and try "100 Sex Games" here:

http://www.christian-sex.net/games/index.html

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Who are Robert & Susan Irwin?

- Robert and Susan Irwin are
Nationally-recognized authors and speakers. They
have been asked to appear as Sexual Experts on
radio (The Danny Fontana Show [Inspiration
Network]), television (The Discovery Channel) and
has been published in many magazine (Men's
Health) and newspaper (The Pittsburgh Post
Gazette) articles.
- They are the proud parents of four amazing
children.
- He is the founder and Executive Director of
the Sexual Performance Institute.
- His E-Book, Sexual Skills For The Christian
Husband™ has been one of the world's
best-selling E-Books for over nine years.
- Thousands of men and women, across the globe,
have benefited from their counseling, seminars
and E-Books.

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